Recently some people I love and care about have had to face some difficult struggles. Medically, financially, and emotionally, they have needed someone to assist them. Sadly, I was told that apart from me and a few other family members, my loved ones felt like they had few people to turn to. This got me thinking about two, seemingly contradictory realities:
1) Ultimately, we will spend large portions of our life alone.
2) I am so blessed because my family who would support me if I went through a crisis consists not only of my blood relatives, but a group of friends who have become part of my family, and a group of amazing coworkers who have supported each other through trials, tribulations, and joyous moments in life.
"Like it or not, alone is something we will be quite lot." Dr. Seuss's aphorism from Oh the Places You'll Go is a reality check for anyone embarking on a new journey in life. There are many people who wouldn't necessarily consider themselves their own friend. This saddens me because I truly believe if you don't love and value yourself, how can others? So much of our life seems to be dedicated to seeking approval from someone else - a boss acknowledging the work you do, a significant other to make you feel worthwhile, a friend who can validate your decisions. But what about seeking self approval? That seems to fall by the wayside.
In some ways, I really admire my loved one's acceptance of this harsh truth. To Be Continued...
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